Saturday, November 24, 2007

Im Engaged....

You heard me right...


On thanksgiving morning, at the top of a mountain overlooking LA, Sam knelt down and asked me to marry him. He had it all very elaborately planned and I had no idea.

Three weeks ago, he had travelled to see my parents and to ask for my Dad's permission to marry me. Sam told me he was spending the afternoon and evening with his sister, Cassia, and they would be watching movies and hanging out, which they did...in the car.

In the morning of November 22nd, we went for our hike. I didn’t realize that Lukas and Cassia, Sam's siblings, and Beckie and Reu, were already hiking the trail...only about 20 minutes ahead of us. They had all had excuses why they couldn’t do the hike with us. But I didn’t mind...I was thankful just to be with Sam. It was so quiet and peaceful on the trail. We made it to the top of the trail, after a few stops for me to catch my breath, and I looked out over the San Fernando Valley. It was glorious...the sun was shining, but there was a fog bank that covered half the valley and was slowly dissipating. Sam said it wasn’t enough...If we climb this last steep part, we can see a whole lot more of the valley. So we did....and I might say it was a very steep climb, but well worth it for the view. So we were standing at the edge looking out at the view and catching our breath and little did I know that Lukas was only about four feet below us, hidden in a bush.

Now that I had caught my breath, Sam started moving off to the right, so I followed him. As I turned, I saw that behind me was a mound, and a heart of roses. I looked back at Sam, and he had dropped to one knee. I think if I was an emotional person, I would have cried...but as it was I was just speechless. Sam caught me totally by surprise. For the very first time, he said he loved me, and then asked me to marry him. Of course I said yes! As I looked around, music started playing, I saw Lukas popped up out of some bushes and start snapping pictures, and then I learned what I thought was the full extent of his plan. Reuben and Beckie were there (I thought they were at my Aunts 45 minutes away) and so was Cassia, who I thought was on her way to Sacramento. They took a few more pictures and left us up there for a while.

We started down the mountain…and as we got back on the trail, we came across a red and a white rose, lying on the path together. I picked it up, and there was a note attached that read, I love you because.... All the way down the trail back to the car, we picked up 100 red and white roses each with a different reason Sam loved me. Sam’s sister, Julia, and her husband, Ben, had hiked up the trail behind us, laying down the roses as they went. So there was quite the welcoming committee that met us at the bottom of the trail. And there was one last surprise. My parents were waiting at the bottom. It was so special to be able to have our two families there to celebrate with us. And celebrate we did, with some of Jules homemade cinnamon rolls and apple cider.

It was the perfect way to spend Thanksgiving Day. I already had much to be thankful for…but now even more. The Lord has been so good to me and sometimes I still wonder how it is that a wonderful guy like Sam could love me. But isn’t that the way of our God, to bless us by giving to us that which we don’t deserve. I look forward to showing Sam how much I love him, and to being able to display God’s character and love through this new stage of our relationship in order to bring Him glory.

Click here to see an album of the pictures.

6 comments:

Murray and Liz Benson said...

Nicki - we are so delighted that you have reached this milestone in your life. We pray that you and Sam will have just a fantastic life together as you serve God. We send our blessings to you both. Now don't forget that you'll have to show him off to the rest of us Kiwis - in person - at some stage!!

Love - the Benson family

The Gordon Family said...

Nicki, we are very excited for you. We loved your description of the engagement, Sam must be a wonderful man. It is exciting to see a couple who both love the Lord to be joined together in service to our great God. Congratulations.

Love from The Gordon Family

Anonymous said...

I am so thrilled for both of you. Sam, Welcome to our whanau (extended family). I've not met you yet but in the photo Nicki showed us of you when she was in New Zealand earlier this year I saw honesty and respect, and true humility - someone who has a Godly assessment of himself and accepts who he is. And now you have a future wife who is all that and more - love and acceptance flows from her heart like a river in flood. Nicki - I know you wouldn't have accepted Sam without knowing he is God's gift to you and you are God's gift to him, and that together you can achieve more personally and together than you could on your own. God bless both of you heaps and heaps, and may you both know his blessings on your relationship too. Love to you both more than I can express. Aunty Ali.

BARB said...

Wow praise God for the unfolding of His plan for your life, Nicki! We are looking forward to meeting Sam- we'll trust the Lord for when.Your description of his proposal to you brought tears to my eyes - the Lord has answered our prayers for you in an amazing way.

Love from the Bisleys

Lang Gang said...

Nicki - What a joy to hear how God is working in your life and His faithfulness to provide you with a godly husband. We are absolutely thrilled to hear of your engagement and I cried my way through your story as it reminded me so much of my own precious Scott and all the sweet things he did for me during this same time in our lives. Roses were always the theme. Loved your photos and the secondary theme of including family. We promise to pray for you two during this time of planning and preparing for the special day and for your future together. God bless you both.

Lovingly,
Fanny, for the Lang gang

Anonymous said...

Nicki - congratulations! Very excting news and I really hope one day soon (!!) I can make the journey over to see you and Sam and the rest of your family. I am going to send your blog onto my boyfriend Rob to read as what Sam did sounds just so romantic and so loving.

Love Siobhan xx